(at 2017 Willow Creek GLS to learn more about leading our Operation Christmas Child team)
It is truly an honor for me to be here. I think some of you have heard about
grit. It’s what I study as a psychologist. Each and every girl and boy, man and woman can develop grit.
I think all people are ambitious. When I was a child I thought only some people were ambitious
but now I think all are. If people
have a choice they would be excellent at what they do.
What is grit?
Four Questions:
1)
I am a hard worker.
2)
I finish whatever I begin. (this is the single
most predictive item of who will go on to achieve challenging goals)
3)
I
have difficulty maintaining my focus on projects that take more than a few
months to achieve.
4)
My interests change from year to year.
1 & 2 have to do with perseverance and 3 & 4 have to
do with passion.
Grit scores and age – as age goes up so does grit
Why?
Millennials grew up with more ?
Maturity principle – with age and experience and character
strengths get better
Either because of culture or experience, grit can change. This tells me we can build grit and we
can start today.
Will Smith – (my favorite psychologist) said, “The only
thing different about me is I’m not afraid to die on a treadmill. If we get on a treadmill together,
either you’re getting off first or I’m gonna die.”
Talent vs. Effort
1869 study Sir Frances Galton “The truly eminent have
ability combined with zeal and with capacity for hard labor.”
Charles Darwin – “I have always maintained that men did not
differ much in intellect, only in zeal and hard work.”
GRIT is sustained
passion and perseverance for especially long-term goals.
It is the hallmark of high achievers in every domain. Talent
is nothing if you don’t apply yourself.
Talent X Effort = Skill
Skill
X Effort = Achievement
Of course talent counts but effort counts TWICE.
Anders Ericson did decades of research on high achievers. No
matter who you are or how much talent you have you start at the bottom of the
learning curve. Even talented
people have to learn and need practice to get better. You need deliberate practice that makes people better
faster. After thousands of hours
you might get a chance to be world-class.
You could get better for a few years and then plateau. This happens in all kinds of
professions = arrested development.
This describes many if not most of us.
You could drop out – start and not finish. Every one of us have dropped out of
something. We are not able to
retain the skills we no longer practice.
Three possibilities –
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What is deliberate practice? – begins with a
stretch goal. World class experts
know exactly what they are working on.
Next they focus 100% on practice toward that goal; then they get
feedback for improvement. Then,
the hardest might be to reflect on your performance and refine it. This is what sets experts apart. But it’s hard! 2006 National Spelling Bee—Winner
Carrie Close describes her practice as she kept a diary of preparing for this
competition. They were categorized—first was leisure reading which was
enjoyable. Second was being
quizzed which was more effortful and less enjoyable. Last, deliberate practice was done alone and was rated as
the more effortful and least enjoyable way they prepared. Grit predicted how many hours of
deliberate practice they completed and that was the predictor of
achievement. This keeps you
learning and improving
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Many of us drop out of things too early—We
studied that by going to West Point Academy and gave the Grit scale on day 2 of
the summer training and then waited to see who would drop out. We found the higher the Grit score on
day 2 the more likely the cadet was to stick it out in the program. West Point has a measure called the
Whole Candidate Score measuring various abilities but this does not predict
success in the first summer of training.
Ability was not related to Grit.
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What do you give up when you develop Grit? Individuals who are passionate and
persevering in what they do are usually deeply satisfied with their life.
So how do we build Grit? (in chronological order)
1) Develop your interests
before training your weaknesses.
Interests are central to the development of Grit. Interest is the seed of passion. Interest is the first and most
important part of emerging passion
2) Know the
science of deliberate practice –
reflect, refine, and repeat
3) Cultivate purpose – “In choosing what
to do, I always take into account whether it will benefit other people.” Usually develops in middle
adulthood. The higher your
commitment to other people the greater your passion and perseverance.
4) Change your
mind about changing your mind. Dr.
Carol Dweck contrasts a Fixed Mind-set with a Growth Mind-set.
Growth mind-set leads to a desire to learn and therefore a tendency to
embrace challenges. We find Growth
Mind-set in children and adults predicts Grit.
Before I conclude I’d like to think about the people around
us. Let me tell you of an Olympic
swimmer who said as a young boy he wanted to quit and his father said I don’t
want you to quit just because you’re losing so he told him he had to practice
and when he got to the top of his age group he could quit if he wanted. The swimmer said, “My parents loved me
so much they didn’t want me to quit on a bad day.”
We all have a chance to create a culture that will cultivate
and embrace Grit. Grit is
something I believe you can build in yourself and in others. It unlocks the ambition in all of us so
we can be as excellent as we are able to be.
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